I have been "adopted" by my friend, Analia's parents. They live about a 2.5 hour bus ride from Montevideo, but I have stayed with them three times. Every time they receive me like I am their third daughter. I love the town they live in. It is a lot more laid back than Montevideo, and almost everyone in town heads to the beach every evening to spend a few hours drinking mate and watching the sunset before heading home for supper.
I just returned from this town, Colonia del Sacramento, Sunday evening. I was there for six days helping prepare for Ivana's wedding. Ivana is Analia's older sister. Saturday was the wedding and it was hotter than any day I have experienced in Uruguay. It was in the 100's all day and impossible to think about putting on more clothes than a bathing suit. The wedding started at 9:00pm, but unlike the United States, the time on the invitation was the time people started arriving. Uruguay is in the middle of a horrible drought, all of the farms are suffering horribly from the lack of rain, and of course at 8:55 the skies opened up and it rained harder than I have seen since I have been down here. No one could complain about the rain though, because it is so terribly needed here and it cooled off significantly. There were more smiles than grumbles about the rain. When the rain let up around 9:45, we went outside for the ceremony and it was a gorgeous starry sky backdrop to have a wedding. The ceremony was not much different from that in the United States. After the ceremony, we went inside to the reception.
The reception went a bit like this... appetizers, everyone dancing, more appetizers, more dancing, asado, dancing, pasta, dancing, dessert, dancing, bride and groom putting on big hats and bringing out whistles and masks for everyone and spraying foam everywhere, dancing, all of the single girls pulling rings out of the cake (the one who pulled the gold ring is the next to get married), cutting cake, eating cake, dancing, dancing... and leaving when the sun was coming up at 6:30 in the morning! I was told they were supposed to serve coffee and breakfast, but they ran out of time. I now understand why we took time out on the wedding day to take a nap!